Tuesday, August 30, 2005

would this bother you??

k so i work with this dude.... (i know you all are thinking here dee goes on a rant again about work. work is good and i have no desire to quit anytime soon:). anywhooo, he and i get along great. he's a funny, laidback, and i have no problems working under his management. but.. he's so open about his personal life. i know all about his divorce, all of his girlfriends, his current dating life, yadayadaa... i wanna be his friend and all, but honestly it makes me a little uncomfortable. further more, he's like dating three girls right now, and not really in a casual way. he knows he's in a mess, and i guess i can understand why he occasionally needs to unload and vent. he asks for advice and such, but i'm really no help. what do i know?? i have very little experience in this field...lol..especially for someone who's like fifteen years older than me. i pretty much told him to get rid of these girls he hangs out with, and try to figure out himself. today i got the wonderful opportunity to meet one of these girls during lunch. well, i really wouldn't call it lunch. in fact i lost my appetite due to their lovely public display of affection. it was so awkward!! and i can't help but think is this what it's like with the other two girls?? oiy!! i'm doin my best not to be insensitive and i will continue to awkwardly lend an ear. i haven't once mentioned anything bout my personal life, and have no desire to do so. but i guess if he has the confidence in confiding in me, then i guess i'll give what little advice i have. lol..he was complaining the other day that his life is "wasting away." i was like, "that's not true, you're just goin through male menopause." he agreed and thought it was funny.

2 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi Deidra, I took you up on your offer to check out your blogsite. Regrarding the supervisor who is unloading personal stuff on you -- you're on the right track. Keep your own personal stuff private. And keep it light and funny with him. Nothing serious. The guy is way messed up emotionally. Sounds like he's a little immature, too.

9:16 PM  
Blogger Deidra said...

lol thanks..
it's so good to hear from you!

9:13 PM  

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